
I sort of feel bad for what's bothering me right now but my fiance's father is not doing well, he's not on death's door or anything but definitely not doing great. He has diabetes and heart issues among many other things. He has refused for years now to take care of himself, can barely feel his legs because has sat around for years with no exercise and he smokes and now has no circulation which causes wounds and he falls all the time. He eats cookies and candy all day, smokes like a freight train but no amount of pleading will make him change his ways.
The thing is we planned to go on an overseas vacation since we didn't really have much of one last year. But my fiance wants to put everything on hold because of his father. I understand his concern (trust me, I help care for him) but how much of our life will be put on hold because of this?? And for how long? I feel awful for even being frustrated about this but it really bothers me!