Very general feedback (i.e., this stinks, or this is the best thing ever written) is essentially useless and should be ignored. Very specific feedback (i.e., two of the characters had nearly identical names and I kept confusing them) can be extremely useful, especially if the same comment is made by more than one reader. It's very helpful if a writer can pull back a bit from his/her own work (this is easier if one sets it aside for a month to a year and comes back to it fresh) to make a dispassionate judgment about whether feedback is (a) too general to be helpful, (b) specific but a matter of a reader's individual taste and therefore also not helpful, or (c) specific and useful because it points out a potential improvement that can make the next book appeal to a larger number of readers.[/quote]
well, I think the males that reviewed it probably didn't like the gender role reversal
